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Where did the butterflies flee?

Often relationships will start hot and passionately. You experience the crush and desire to shower in the body and feel that you can conquer the whole world and that this true feeling will last forever. Because you've found the right partner.

In the human body, a lot of mechanisms have been built, which must "cheat" us to do what is necessary for our species to continue. Love, desire and the huge surplus that comes with when all the 'lure hormones' are released, is only bait. It's wonderful while it's on, and if we ignore that human beings are aware of contraception, the mission of transferring the species would be completed after a short while. And there is no longer a need for 'bait'. When the offspring have come to the world, other hormones will be triggered. Hormones that will 'lure' parents to take care of the child until it can manage itself.
 
But what happened to the feeling of being able to conquer the world, the feeling of the noise, the desire and the feeling that the partner is right?

Once these strong emotions have been achieved using the 'lure hormones', the feeling of happiness will also diminish when the hormones are no longer formed. If we think that the wild crush and the noise of the hormones are the same as the love, happiness and joy that makes life worth living, it will be hard to feel happy on the long run.
But ... When the body's own biological functions have completed their glare, we are fortunately equipped with a gift that allows us to cheat and lure the hormones in production again.

So when you sit there with your partner and think he / she has become boring. The wild desire has disappeared, the spontaneous experiences have gradually become more rare, and the feeling that it is absolutely right does not feel any longer so strong.

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